Hello Lovers~
With over forty years in the field of psychic counselling and specializing in relationships, romance and astrological compatibility, Nahu has been an advisor for a broad cross-section of society.
Beginning his work as an in-house psychic in Southern California at the La Costa Resort in the mid-seventies, Nahu quickly became popular because of his natural propensity for finding the ideal mate.
Wth a Sun Sign in Libra – the sign of love and the moon in Taurus – the sign of security and home, Nahu is a natural when it comes to issues of love and marriage. He was sought out by political leaders, foreign diplomats, celebrities and people from every walk of life.
Nahu enjoys helping people to increase their sexual magnetism to propel their popularity with the opposite sex by gaining insight into their strengths and weakness and refining these traits to achieve their romantic goals in life.
More Power to Your Love Life, Nahu
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This is the first time of seeing and reading your site! Hmmm..the EMMA of 2010 in California! I am a Christian, so not advised to follow the stars and signs and such, but It is enchanting reading about the work you do. I am a Romantic at heart, romancing life and doing the best I can in the marriage relationship I am in at the moment!
I do not usually watch BACHELOR as the quick pick thing is not a WISE idea, but it is fun to watch and when I found out Jake had values and I really thought CHRISTIAN values, I wanted to see a man go thru this PROGRAM of finding a mate, and choose A GODLY WOMAN for a GODLY MAN..well, ha…..the ole “THANG CHOOSING” prevailed again! It IS really hard for a woman and man at that age, single..to keep CELIBACY in the forefront, to not CHOOSE sexually…..it takes 2 to be TRUE til MARRIAGE….
then …it can be ALL that is was MEANT TO BE..at least you know then your MATE has some >>CONTROL!!
Enchanting Site!! I enjoyed sharing opinions and ideas!! God Bless…
Thank you for dropping by, I am glad you enjoyed the site.
Blessings, Nahu~
Greetings Nahu! I am a fan of Psychic Phenomena and have had a few experiences myself. Anyways, do you think Jake & Vienna will get married? Will they last?
…cool site you have!
Shawna
This is the first time on your site. I find your insight very wonderful. Although I am a Christian, I am curious to know if I should continue loving the man who doesn’t know if he wants me in his life. I feel a urge not to give up. What should I do?
Hi Nahu,
Love, to me, is sacred and sex, to me, is well, sex. I don’t need “sexual magnetism.” Oh, well, actually, at my age, truly being a loving and lovable person is important, but sex is no longer a focal point in my life. What a relief! There is so much more to love and life than sex, and when souls express themselves through their bodies, the souls are a continuum–love is sacred. Sex and love are one. Too bad we have too words for sacred love or sacred sex. Sex is a nonessential despite what we have been sold about its importance. Involving ourselves sexually is not a need; it is a desire–an urgent desire especially when we are young, but being loving and being loved has nothing to do with sexual charisma and has everything to do with honesty, empathy, and mutual trust. Now, that’s sexy! But only if that trio is real and Real. Nothing less will do. Am I a prude? No. I’m too free and sensible to be a prude. Am I not still a romantic? In a very large sense, I think I am more of a romantic now than I was, say 40 years ago. I believe you are providing a fine and much needed service. I credit you for helping young people find true love. But I just wanted to share my own experience a bit here with you and your readers. It’s just my stuff folks. Everyone has his or her preferences, needs, and desires. Mine have changed a lot over the last 40 + years. I didn’t understand in the 1970s and 80s what it meant when I saw buttons and tags and so on that read, “A woman without a man is like a fish without bicycle.” I finally get it–loud and clear, and I am still straight–just a lot more reserved and careful. Frightened? A little. . . .
Thank you, dear friend, again for your interesting insights and opinions. I don’t think you are a prude for your viewpoint, but simply reflecting what you have learned according to your personal perspective on love and sex. However, I do find it interesting that you tend to separate love and sex into two categories in the beginning of your letter, but later on reunite them into a new whole. That does indicate somewhat of a split in your perspective – perhaps indicating some conflicitng feelings associated with age, your self-image, relationship status and expectations. That you consider sex now to be a non-essential, as you put it – a desire rather than a need, suggests that you have learned, perhaps, to do without it – an additional attraction, but not the main one.
Don’t forget to include pleasure with fulfillment in your ‘sacred’ equation, it’s okay to give pleasure as well as receive it. Sex, love and the joy of being in the flesh is not just for the young – it’s for the young at heart too!
Love & Light, Nahu
Thank you Nahu. From your wisdom and insight, I believe it is time for me to transform my self-preservation and reservations about loveandsex into a deeper sense of self-acceptance, and as it may happen, accepting someone else. The trouble I have been having with this is from past experiences. A woman gives a man love, and he takes sex. I know that sounds harsh, but it was like that for so many years. The old stereotype of men want sex and women want intimacy (esp. emotional) was true, too true for a awfully long time. It seems within the last ten, maybe twenty years ago, how men and women relate to each other is changing toward something more generous, giving, and mutual. Still, it is hard for this early baby boomer to get over the idea I grew up witth: Men want sex. Make sure he respects you. Be a lady. Play hard to catch. Games! I have always disdained games and masks. How much better it truly is to honestly accept one’s self–fully. I am a lady, and I am not about to become anything other than a lady–even in bed : > That was fun!
Well, so I have begun to evolve back toward my physical existence. Uniting the spiritual intellectual emotional physical is integral for the heart and soul and mind and body of the person who has achieved a high level of integrity, consciousness, and conscientiousness. I must admit, it does seem more and more people are becoming less obsessed one way or another about sex and more and more evolving toward our humanity being capable of a lot of Grace–and Sacred Love-Making. Blessings to you and yours Nahu. It is always a pleasure communicating with you. Gratefully, Ilene
It is so good to see that your vision of yourself is progressive, that it has room for evolvement. You are obviously progressing into a healthier vision of yourself.
Please strive to stay aware that there is, however, an element of una-dimensionality in your observations of male-female relationships. I say this because you tend to equate men with sex and women with love. It reminds me of the stereotypical idea that women are biophiles and men necrophies. Of course, both ideas are limiting and reflective of individuals perspectives.
Individual perspective is a tricky affair with self. Once thorughly understood it is the final key to evolving. To gain insight into one’s personal perspective removes the blinders erected by our fears and expectations. Perspective determines what we see about ourselves and others. One of these blocks in your perception concerns sex and love. In your mind’s eye the twain shall never meet.
For them to do so men must give up their demand for sex and women wait for them to change. At no point in this perspective is there room for the possibility that women have sexual needs too and men desire to give and receive love. In addition, there is little room for ‘higher’ forms of sexual contact and love that includes sexual freedom.
You might benefit from looking into Tantric sex and its connection to higher forms of consciousness. It is also important that learn to accept your own sexual needs and allow yourself freedom to enjoy your natural impulses. Sexuality has its place and without it deep bonding often does not take place in a relationship. On the other hand, if we focus entirely on love, giving or receiving it exclusively, we become obsessive and critical and disenchanted with the quality of our experiences.
Bottom line. allow yourself to enjoy all of your life and don’t be in so much a hurry to analyze every experience. Learn to feel and trust that your deeper self knows exactly where it’s going and why. Don’t expect that every encounter will be your last just because it doesn’t have depth. sometimes the most insignificant occasions can plant the seed of love regardless of how meaningless they might appear to us. And finally, do expect that there are men out there in the world who are different then the stereotype you have conceived.
Above all, enjoy every moment of your life and don’t spend all your time weighing and balancing its net proceeds. Life is for living as thought is in thinking and breathing in each breath!
I understand, but I also am right for myself to be free AND wise. In other words, freedom, as Janis Joplin in her song Me and Bobby McGee sang, “is just another word for nothing left to lose.” Spontaneity (impulse) is fine, but without wisdom and sensibility, spontaneity is a whore. I can be free from impulsive desires for sexual love and I never want to f…k! Sex fantasy? A fantasy is a fantasy because it is not something we really want to realize beyond our minds or sex glands or stories that are only realized as fiction. Porn? I don’t talk about it except to condemn it. Stop it? If I could, I would. I do, however, believe in freedom of speech, choices, and so on. Still, I don’t think porn is something people, especially most women, choose of their own free will–even if it is for the money. Human integrity cannot form from a preoccupation with sex or intimate love or work or any one thing. Am I giving you a hard time Nahu? That is not my intention. I am honest and I feel very free to be real and honest with you about what I think and feel, and I deeply thank you for encouraging me and guiding me.
Bottom line: I must be comfortable with a man before we become lovers–and he must be a dear friend–preferably–my best friend–so that if and when we become lovers–we become closer and our hearts and souls share sacred trust, mutual love and evolving more and more toward Great Spirit or higher consciousness. Limit my “prospects”? Of course! Why? My choice. And THAT dear Nahu is precisely what I want–my conscious, conscientious, deliberate decision for whatever feelings and thoughts and desires and needs I have–I am the one who I own and control as I decide. Err? Sure, So what? I get over my errors when they are a result of my own doing a lot easier than when someone else errors because of his or her own decisions. Does that make sense? Of course I can forgive others, but it’s hard for me right now to explain what I mean about others and their mistakes because so much depends on the relationship and the situation. Still, if I err because of my own choices, it still feels right, and then I can move on because whether I decide well or badly, I DECIDE. “(Great Spirit) grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. . . .” Perfectly? In perfect harmony, balance, and proportion? What is that? Perfection scares me because I don’t know what it is although I have seen a perfect dance, heard perfect music and seen perfect paintings–but that kind of perfection is judgmental. Yes, I judge; therefore, I decide–right or wrong–as long as I am free to make my own choices–for me–not so I can be “accepted,” but so I can accept and forgive myself. Self-love? Whatever. Self-trust? Oh, yes Nahu! Most assuredly. May I give you a hug? : ) Love and light, Ilene
Can you do any readings on Britney spears? I remember your readings from psychceleb for youtube were so accurate.
Please let me know what you think of Britney and her current partner–Jason Trawick. Is he abusive like the tabloids say? Will this relationship lead to marriage? What does the future hold for Britney, her kids, and career? When will the conservatorship end?