According to Reality Steve, Contestant Lindsey Cox is one of the final four women. And her friends tell HollywoodLife.com that Lindsey may be Ben’s perfect match.
FRIENDS SHARE THEIR FEELINGS ABOUT LINDSEY:
“I hope he picks her,” a friend of Lindsey’s tells us. “He would be the happiest man in the world if he picked her. She’s the most happy, upbeat, positive, considerate girl I have ever met.”
Lindsey’s lifestyle would match up with Ben’s. “She’s not high maintenance at all,” gushes her friend. “She’s down to earth and I think they would definitely get along. His life style, I know he has a vineyard, I could totally see her living in it. They’d be perfect. I could definitely say nobody deserves it more than her.”
“She’s the best,” adds the friend. “She is smiling from the second she wakes up till she goes to bed. I’ve never seen her in a bad mood.”
While in college at Fresno State, Lindsey was more focused on competing for the school’s equestrian team and studying than she was on partying. “She was a great girl,” says the friend. “She never did anything bad. She was never a partier. She never went out. Always the first one at practice, first one at meetings, stayed the longest. She was a well respected senior who we all looked up to, went to. Her whole focus was work and riding.”
Another pal agrees that Lindsey could be the one for Ben. “They could hit it off because of her personality,” shares the insider. “She’s very sweet and standoffish and kind of waits for the man to approach. She’s athletic, open to new things, not closed minded at all, but she is a little more reserved and polite. I would say they would fit well from what I’ve seen with Ben’s personality. She is the settling down type.”
“She was always more reserved,” adds the insider. “She never talked about boys that much. Very quiet. Very sweet. She seemed more picky. She didn’t go out and party and try to find a boyfriend. That didn’t seem like a goal of her.”
NAHU’S INTUITIVE INSIGHTS:
Originally, long before the filming of the show began, I got the impression that the girl Mr. Flajnik will choose at the finale will be blond, a darker shade of blond, if you get my drift. I saw a medium-sized female with shoulder length blond hair who is upbeat, friendly and intelligent; she has a somewhat conservative, practical personality.
The question is, does Lindsey Cox fit this profile and will she win the heart of Ben Flajnik? Let’s reminisce about Ben Flajnik’s experience on Ashley’s season of The Bachelorette.
Do you recall Ben’s bitter disappointment when Ashley told him he wasn’t the one? I believe his last words to Ashley hold the key to his final choice this time around.
I have an especially vivid recollection of his remark about how ‘endings are never good,’ and what that meant to him. You see, Ben is a passionate deep thinker and feeler. The shock of that ‘ending’ meant everything to him. In that sadness he saw his dream reduced to ashes. It was really hard on him. Thus his most fervid resolution: he will never make that same mistake and pick someone who is anything like Ashley. To see his dreams go up in smoke at the last minute changed him to his core. For one thing, he threw out the old Ben and phoenix-like became reborn anew.
Truly, this time around Ben is looking for someone who is ‘for real,’ not a carefree, easy come, easy go kind of person. He felt like Ashley led him on in the worst way. No, the girl of Ben’s dreams will be one who takes commitments seriously. This girl won’t be so cavalier to lead a man deeply into love and than at the last moment pull a cold switch. In a word, Ben is looking for sincerity through and through. Such a girl is Lindsey.
As many other perceptive people have indicated, Lindsey is that type of girl. Hence, she is ideal for Ben because she is an authentic person. In fact, she may (because of her ‘walking of the line’ of relationships) bring something out of Ben which is rare to behold. This rare quality is, in essence, the secret of the deepest link that binds us to our beloved.
When I look into potential relationships I seek to ferret out that deeper link drawing two people together, something akin to destiny. When I focus on Ben and Lindsey, I see fire, feelings and devotion to higher cause cooking in the cauldron of passion; three prime ingredients of love. Lindsey will not only excite him on the emotional/physical level, she will also gain his respect intellectually and give him spiritual inspiration. In her he may see his spirit reclaimed; something he really needs at this point in his life.
NAHU’S PSYCHIC JOURNALISM~
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The minute I saw Lindzi I said that is Ben’s match..Horse people are the best..I own horses and know that most of my horse friends are very nice people..considerate of others..I hope Ben picks Lindzi..GREAT match!
THIS GIRL LOOKS LIKE ME OH MY GOSH!!! I don’t watch the bachelor but my friend told me to look up Lindsey Cox so I did because she had made a comment saying that I looked like her, so I’m like yea okay whatever… I just now looked her up and saw this pic and my jaw dropped! Then my son is sitting beside me and he goes “mom is that you?”… WIERD!